Family

     Often, the generational gaps between families can lead to a lot of differences in opinions and views.  A lot of things can change in the course of just a few years, and this is especially true with immigrant families.  In my own personal experience with my parents growing up in India, I know it was hard for them to become accustomed to the culture here at first; however, since I was born here, American culture was really the first thing I learned.  Due to this, it's very difficult to compare our lives because of the vast discrepancies between the life style, customs, and environment of the two regions.  At times I get very frustrated with them if they don't understand something, but I know they're trying their best.
     Similar to author Sarah Vowell's experiences in Shooting Dad, I also have a hard time finding similarities to bond over my parents with.  When she describes her house as a house divided, that accurately defines my home as well: my parents influenced by more of an Indian culture against my sister and I with an Americanized culture.  However, I am glad that my parents give importance to teaching us Indian culture because although I may be more assimilated into society, I still want to follow Indian traditions; I do not want to completely lose my original culture. Though we may be an ocean's away from understanding each other (pun intended), I know they're always just trying to do what's best for me.